ADHD: Interest is the Key and It’s Instinctive

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – March 24, 2025

When it comes to coaching those with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), interest isn’t just something; it is everything. In reading this article, you will understand why interest is such an important part of coaching those with ADHD and how it can serve as a window to what is instinctive—or how those with ADHD are hardwired. Continue reading “ADHD: Interest is the Key and It’s Instinctive”

ADHD Defined and Categorized

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – February 24, 2025

ADHD Defined and CategorizedMuch has been written about Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD). Some of it is consistent; other things are confusing. Today, I’d like to clarify a few things.

The Classifications of ADD
To begin, is it Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), or is it just Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)? That is a great question because the terms are used interchangeably.

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ADHD: Hocus Pocus, the Trick Is in Choosing Your Focus

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – December 16, 2024

As an ADHD and attention coach, it is my job to bring clarity to my clients by listening to what they are NOT saying (i.e., the unasked questions). I do this by asking questions that lead them through five simple steps designed to take them from stuck to aha. My goal today is to take the mystery out of the coaching process by showing you how my techniques move my clients forward by helping them choose their focus. Continue reading “ADHD: Hocus Pocus, the Trick Is in Choosing Your Focus”

Celebrating Those Who Trust Me to Push Them. Thanks!

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – November 25, 2024

I stumbled into ADHD coaching as a profession 15 years ago. Daily, most people go to work, but I go to fun! Two things I like most about the job is the creativity and helping people. It is even more rewarding to help those who struggle with limiting beliefs or the reflexive urge to focus on emotions. (Often, judgment is what keeps a person down.) Continue reading “Celebrating Those Who Trust Me to Push Them. Thanks!”

Excavating Talents by Removing Barriers

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – October 21, 2024

If you’re like me, you’ve probably heard countless people use the phrase, “Every individual has a unique set of gifts, talents, or abilities at which they excel.” And, in my experience, this is definitely true. However, you’d be surprised to learn the number of people who can’t articulate their own unique set when asked; in fact, many of them find the answer to this question to be difficult and even intimidating. Continue reading “Excavating Talents by Removing Barriers”

The ADHD Dream to Dream

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – September 2, 2024

what does your brain do to entertain itself?Those with ADHD struggle with boredom more than neurotypicals do.  This especially applies to bedtime. Boredom has been defined as the physical discomfort where one is motivated to escape it.  In other words, if those with ADHD are uncomfortable or bored, they will seek comfort, even if what is comforting is something they shouldn’t do.  It takes an enormous amount of cognitive energy to sit in pain when all we want is to seek relief. And when it’s time to go to sleep, those with ADHD have a tough time dealing with that boredom even for a few minutes.
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What is Your Ego Paying Attention To?

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – August 12, 2024

Wrong vs. Right - What is your ego paying attention to?We live in a society that fosters negativity and self-limiting beliefs. Just look at the daily news, the endless array of advertisements for things to “fix us,” or the fascination with the mishaps of celebrities as just a few examples.

The ego loves weakness, and we feed into it by focusing on it; and for some, this focus invades every aspect of life. The result for many is staying “stuck” and not moving forward. Continue reading “What is Your Ego Paying Attention To?”

Attending to the Word “How” and How It Works

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – July 15, 2024

The word “how” is an interesting word when you think about it. “How” can be used as a noun, a conjunction, an idiom, or an adverb. As an attention coach, I use “how” as an adverb. Adverbs work as adjectives to modify verbs. For example, “How do I pay attention to something?” To illustrate, let’s substitute “attend” as the verb in the following sentence: “How does one address the president?” becomes, “How does one attend to the president?” Continue reading “Attending to the Word “How” and How It Works”

What’s Obvious Is a Function of What You Pay Attention To

By Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG – July 1, 2024

Cat and Dog - Ain't it obvious?What is obvious to you? To me, what is obvious is a function of what you pay attention to. Not sure if you agree with me? Then pay attention to most jokes, parables, quotes, and metaphors. They all illustrate my point. Each one is designed to shift your attention to what is obvious. Continue reading “What’s Obvious Is a Function of What You Pay Attention To”